Where I Stood ~ Missy Higgins

Posted: July 25, 2011 in Uncategorized

Have you ever been with someone and you felt lost in the midst of your happiness? Everything is so perfect in the relationship but you don’t know who you are or what you would do if that person were to leave. It’s hard to think about sometimes but there are times when walking away is the best thing. It’s so easy to lose yourself in someone’s life. We get busy making sure that they are happy that we forget about ourselves, our passions, interests, and hobbies. We lose sight of some of the things that attracted that person to us. I like this song because as hard as it is sometimes, the best thing is to let go, so you can figure out who you are. Love isn’t always black and white. There are times when it’s perfect but in reality it’s not where we are supposed to be. What’s harder than walking away is learning to be okay that the person we love is now being held by someone else or being loved in the way we couldn’t love them. If we were to be in a relationship that we were numb in we would be cheating ourselves and the other person of “happily ever after.” We would eventually become frustrated and resentful. Sometimes in life we have to be selfish and think about what we need whether it hurts the other person. You have to know who you are with or without someone. That way, not matter what you go through, you will always land on your feet.

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